If you’ve only been dating a for a month, you’re still both at the stage where you’re deciding whether or not to be monogamous and whether or not you’re someone the other should be investing energy in. But in your mind, you’re a lot further along than that. Time to get back to a more realistic calendar! 😉
Clearly, he’s still got other women on his plate and isn’t as committed to you as you feel you are to him. That’s not a problem because there’s often a discrepancy between the way people feel — especially in the beginning. But when you told him you were upset about the photos, he probably felt like he disappointed you, and men don’t like to feel like they’re disappointing their women. 🙁 They want to feel like they’re the best thing that’s ever happened to you.
I know you think apologizing cleared you, but it just rubbed salt in the wound for him. He knows you were hurt and that he hurt you, and he isn’t ready to handle your hurt feelings over other women this soon in the relationship. Therefore, my advice is to see what happens next and not to try and fix this. If he’s still interested in you, then he’ll show you, and if he’s not, then you’ll have only invested a month in a man who turned out not to be Mr. Right.
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