[ortal]

hi. ive dated this gy for two weeks. and things whear going really good. thear was a missunderstanding between us and he freaked out and saide that he is confused and dosent know what he wants and saide he will talk to me abaught it latter. onlly a few days later i havent heard from him so i sent him a message saying that i would like to see him. he worte back that he was on a trip with friends. a few days latter i saw him on facebook and worte hi. he did not ansew me back. a week later i worte him a message saying that i would like to go out againe and start over. its been 2 weeks and i havent heard from him. i really like him and really want to date him againe. what to do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure what the misunderstanding was about, but it seemed to scare him away. 😳 And now you’re chasing him — something I never recommend women do. 😳 If you stop chasing him, you’ll get a chance to see if he’s avoiding you — or if what’s really happened is that he’s no longer interested in you. So, my advice is to stop chasing him, and if he doesn’t contact you, then accept that it didn’t work out, move on and learn from any mistakes that happened during the misunderstanding. I’m glad you only invested two weeks and not two months (or two years!).

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

[ortal]

so i get that he is not interested. its over a month that i have not contacted him and i still think of him alot and want to get back with him. is thear really nothing i can do? i cant seem to get him out of my mind! 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Definitely don’t chase him, but if you find yourself in the same places he frequents (his coffee shop, his park, his gym), and you look incredible and flirt with him, he may figure it’s worth a second try.

What was the misunderstanding?

[ortal]

i thought we were going to meet one day and he had other plans. when we spoke and i asked him when we will meet he saide that he is meeting friends. i thought he was blowing me off so i got upset and he diden understand and that drove him away. when i realyzed that he hadent planed on meeting me i told him thear was a missunderstanding and he started to flip and said that he wants a girl that wornt get upset when hes with friends and on and on. when i saide that thear was a misunderstanding he just saide hes not shure and that was it! he saude hell talk to me later but never called…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It really sounds like you’ll be a lot better off letting go of your feelings for this guy [i]who’s not that into you[/i], and finding someone who is. 😉

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