[Miss_n82]

I’ve been dating a guy for 6 months and up until 2 weeks ago everything was great and I couldn’t of wished for a better guy. 2 weeks ago is “ex” wife contacted me to tell me that he had been sleeping with her the whole time that we have been together. He was literally leading a double life, when he wasn’t with me, he was with her. They aren’t together but they constantly sleep together, prior to me he had a 2 year relationship with someone else but continued to sleep with the wife.

He tried to deny It all at first and said he wanted to be with me but last week his ex wife presented me with hard evidence, texts, videos, rude pictures he’s sent her while he was me, even sharing fantasies with her that involved me!!!! This makes me feel physically sick 🙁
Since this had come out he has finally admitted it and says he’s not over his ex. He says he wants two weeks with zero contact from me to sort himself out and then he wishes to sort our relationship out? In the meanwhile, she tells me he has been contacting her all the time. I’m so confused I don’t know what to do. Half of md thinks stay and wait and the other half thinks why should I allow him to pick me up and drop me whenever he feels like it? His ex also says this behaviour is not exclusive to me and that the first 3 years she was dating him, he was actually engaged to someone else that he had been with for 5 years!!

Is he ever going to change? Do I need to cut my losses now and run rather than be dinging on a string for him? I’m so upset by everything. Please help x

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Is he ever going to change?[/quote]

There’s no evidence of it. In fact, everything points to him doing more of the same.

[quote]Do I need to cut my losses now and run rather than be dinging on a string for him?
[/quote]
Yes.

[quote]I’m so upset by everything. Please help[/quote]

The best help I can give you is to tell you to move on. You’ve been dating a man who lies and cheats. I’m not sure what else you need to know. 🙄 Do you really want to date a liar and a cheater? No. You’re trying to figure out some way to trick yourself into believing he’s not who he is. Good luck with that! 😕

Find someone to date who is honest. You’ll be a lot happier. 😀

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