So I’ve been hanging out with this guy since December. It banan platonic until one night after hanging out we end up making out. After two months and a couple hang out we finally had sex. Now, he doesn’t text unless he wants to hang which has been “hooking up”. He just recently went on vacation and came over before to “hook up”. At this point, I haven’t really been trying to talk to him because I’m confused and I don’t want to rant to him my unprocessed thoughts. He does work a lot but, that’s still no excuse..
We are both in our early 20S. I guess my question is, how should I go about talking to him about the status of our relationship without seeming needy? And just an outside perspective of things in general.
The simple answer is: Don’t. Don’t talk to him about the status of your relationship. You already know it. You just don’t like it. 😉 The two of you are hook up buddies. That’s it. He was ready and you were willing.
Bringing up the relationship status, which you both already know, will appear needy, and besides, guys HATE “the talk”.
