[lillylove1]

i am texting a guy i like but my english is not good and i didn’t understand what he meant in his text. We were talking about a singer we both like a lot, and as we have similar taste, at some point i wrote him “i love you” (it was just a joke, i meant that i love the fact that he likes the same songs and singer that i like) He text me back “sure u do” and then “whatever u joke is too much meany”. I asked him to explain and he said ” as in, u tease me, joke” (i didn’t understand this sentence). Was he angry with me for what i’ve said or he was just joking??

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You came on too strong, and men don’t like that. 😳 Saying “I love you” has a lot of meaning and it’s a bad idea to use it with a guy you like as a joke. Whether you’re good at english or not, it can cause a lot of miscommunication. The guy you told that you loved was trying to tell you that using the “love” word with someone you don’t know well, isn’t a good idea.

My advice is to back off and tone down your flirting. Let the men make the first move. You can get a lot more with a lot less! 😉

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