[oxkatiexo15]

my boyfriend has been acting different and texing different lately, and he isnt even answering my texts half the time.. or walking me to my classes. i think there is something wrong and i want to find out, but i have been asking so many times and i dont want to seem clingy or annoying. i also, just want to make him feel better. he also always used to text me right after school let out and now im lucky if i get a text by 7pm. and he barley ever texts me in the mornings anymore, when he used to text me right when he woke up. i just want to make sure i didnt do anything wrong, i dont think i did, but im scared he may not feel the same way anymore.. or if theres something else thats going on that he isnt telling. help. (as of today, we have also been dating for 10 months).

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It definitely sounds like something is bothering him. I don’t think you need him to tell you that for you to figure out that things have changed. But you can’t make someone tell you what they don’t want to. And since you’ve already asked him multiple times, the best thing you can do is to be there to listen if he wants to talk. Being clingy or needy isn’t going to work — it’s going to make things worse.

However, his increased disinterest is a sure sign he’s losing interest. I know it’s scary to think someone you’re attached to is losing interest, but all you can do is be the best girlfriend you know how to be, and if you’re doing that and he’s STILL not interested, then you have to accept that he’s lost interest. 🙁

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[oxkatiexo15]

yeaah im really trying to do my best to be there for him, and i hope he hasnt lost intrest.. i feel like whatevers bothering him is just affecting him alot.

is there any ideas you have that would atlest just help him get his mind off of things?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Well, there are lots of ways to take his mind off of things. You can start by getting out of your environment. Simply going to the movies, taking a hike, playing sports or going to volunteer somewhere new and different, are all great starts! 😉

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