Hi,
I started seeing this girl over a month ago. After maintaining contact and seeing each other for a while, i was convinced i loved her and i told her. After i did, she told me she was damaged emotionally and was a wreck and didn’t want a relationship as it wasn’t her top priority and i agreed to it however i was confused cos she always loved meeting up with me and getting close up but once she left she would start acting up.
I was convinced i could live with it all so i still hung on and not long after that, she told me she loved me too and started pushing for our relationship to be publicized… i didnt want this cos i wanted everything to be on the low but i did as she asked and put it all up on facebook.
Since i have started dating her i have found myself unhappy mainly because she surrounds me with all the problems going on in her life. She has had an abusive step dad from when she was a kid after her dad left and she was in a terribly abusive relationship that marred her self-confidence and a host of other problems.
She loves me totally and even as much as almost worships me and has planned our lives together saying she wants me as a life partner and she wants kids and everything but i fear my feelings towards her have changed and i think it is because i see her as a bag of trouble…
When she broke up from her last relationship she tried commiting suicide and has warned me that she will have no reason to live on if i hurt her and leave her… i am scared but my feelings have changed in so short a time what do i do?
what would you advise please?
