[dkm0317]

My girlfriend knows a lot about my past relationships and it has nothing to do with the fact that I have a past, but that my past affects her so negatively. How do I make sure I protect her frm here on out?

[AskApril Masini]

Fill me in a little more. How old are you both? How, specifically, does your past affect her? And how long have the two of you been dating?

[dkm0317]

I am 30 and she is 25, and we have been together for 10 months, and I have a son from a selfish woman who she doesn’t want to be a part of our life! We both know my son is an innocent bystander in all of this. Also she just found out that she might have HPV and I probably gave it to her. Now she can’t stop feeling dirty and thinking of my past experiences she knows about and it makes her not want to be intimate with me!

[AskApril Masini]

Thanks for filling me in! But I’m still not sure what it is about your son and your ex-wife that is upsetting your girlfriend. Help me out here. How old is your son? Does he live with you full time? What about your ex-wife and/or your son bothers your girlfriend?

As for your giving her a sexually transmitted disease, that’s unfortunate. The best thing for you to both do now is to go to the physician together and ask him or her to treat you for the virus and to give you advice for safe sex in the future. That should give her some confidence that you’re handling this problem as a team. 😀

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