Sometimes it’s so hard to tell what’s real and what’s just temporary interest. A guy can say all the right words, stay up late talking to you, even make you feel special — but deep down, you still wonder if it’s genuine or just a phase.
I’ve been in a situation where a guy seemed really into me at first — texting all day, saying he missed me, calling me his “peace.” But after a while, things changed. The energy faded, messages became dry, and the effort just… disappeared. It’s confusing because when he’s around, he makes me feel like I’m the only one — but when he pulls away, I start questioning everything.
How do you truly know when a guy is genuinely into you? Is it about consistency, effort, how he treats you during silence, or something deeper? What signs should we really look for to tell the difference between real feelings and temporary attraction?
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