[That_SororityChick20]

Hi April,
I should start from the beginning. I attended a party with my sorority sister and met one of her cute guy friend (let’s say his name is Paul) and of course he caught my eye and on a separate occasion I drunkenly told my sister I like him and asked her to invite him over to hang with us but by the time he arrived I had already left and went back to my room (Thank God!) She then continued to set us up but I asked her to put an end to it the next day. Once again (yesterday) he and his roommates threw another party. After a while Paul came over to talk to me,making jokes and talking about how I wasn’t really enjoying the music. After staring at his weird hair cut and being the touchy-feely person I am I reached out and touched it! 😳 Which I soon after regretted because he walked away to go change the music and engage in conversations with other people and slightly danced with a girl and left his own party with her. – I know I shouldn’t have just reached out and touched him upon our first real conversation. Now I’m stuck with having to probably see him again because I left my lip gloss in his apartment (I’m slightly hoping he’ll give it to my sister to avoid him) I just want to know whether or not I should just let this one go and completely avoid him now? and in the event that I do see him again should I say something? and what should that something be?

(Sorry for writing out the long story.)

[AskApril Masini]

Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. That’s an old expression that stands up here. You’re right — it wasn’t polite to touch his hair when you don’t really know him, but it’s also not the worst thing in the world, and my advice is to let it go. Forget it. Don’t try to avoid him over that. If he brings it up, apologize, but touching his hair isn’t a “huge mistake” in the scheme of things. 😉 Don’t lose any more sleep over it, but do remember not to do that with someone you don’t know, next time. 🙂

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