[Savvydt]

Okay back in September I met my boyfriend now ex online on a dating website we live a hour away from each other well everytime we tried to meet up my brain would judge freak out fast forward to 7 months later Im now diagnosed with anxiety and we still haven’t met. I’m completely in love with him I’ve never ever felt anyway about this ever it’s a really weird feeling for me. Well he was getting impatient and frustrated with not meeting me. Understandable. Well on April 27 he broke up with me. Then today I found out he already has a girlfriend I don’t know how to cope with this.

[AskApril Masini]

If you meet a guy online, and won’t meet him in person, he will think that you’re not ready for a relationship. He was, so he found one. I’m sorry you’re hurt. I guess you thought he was going to wait for you beyond seven years. I’m sure you know that that’s asking a lot of someone. More than what’s normal.

If you do want to date and you do want a boyfriend, make sure that you’re really ready. If you can’t meet in person, reconsider. This just might not be a great time for you be with someone. 😳 When you’re ready, you’ll get out there and meet a guy. But for now, it sounds like you have some personal problems that need to be dealt with first.

I hope that helps.

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