I started dating my boyfriend and the end of his horrible divorce.. His now ex-wife had more then enough affairs, and finally went off the deep end threatening for divorce && taking the kids away… long story short, they got divorced and i now live with him & his kids..
When the divorce 1st started he was on different web sites trying to something, i assume a random hook up.. well we started dating & i confronted him and asked if he still go on the site.. he told me he had not been on it.. month have gone by sine then, and we have had our rough times.. To Me, he doesn’t believe in ‘happy ending’ or two people being happy together.. They are either not together or miserable with their relationship.. Well, i was trying to get on my email account, and some how got on to his, and found that he had two messages from this site. I then looked at his internet history and it said he’d been on the site many times in the past 7 days.. He was not home at this time, so i sent him a message saying he didn’t want me here, he assumed i was still upset because he left to go to the store && told me that just because it’s my time of the month i don’t need to be sending him messages like that.. He then came home and i confronted him about the site, and other things i found.. He only admited to being on one of the sites… I don’t know what to do.. I love him, but i do not want to be lied to or cheated on…