[hello123]

I love my boyfriend so much we have been dating for almost 2 years, but i don’t trust him and i act crazy most of the time by going through his phone or not letting him go out. i hate all the partying and drugs he is doing but he won’t stop even for me. he will always choose them when he is drunk. when he is sober he is the most amazing person i know. i just wanna be happy. we break up and fight all the time but i can’t seem to figure out how to not go back to him. it’s getting very old and i can’t handle it anymore. all i’ve done these past few months is cry. i just don’t know what to do. i know it’s not just him. he tells me how immature i am because i act like a ‘highschooler’ in this relationship. there are so many problems in our relationship but i can’t help but want to be with him forever. i feel like our issues are mostly because of the drinking and he tells me he won’t change for me and doesn’t care how i feel about him drinking. he thinks i should change and be more mature by not acting childish and let him go out as much as he wants, but i don’t trust that he won’t do things that he knows i think is wrong. he is also best friends with a girl that he hooked up with 3 years ago and doesn’t care what i think about that either. he tells me they are just friends, but i see them talking to eachtother CONSTANTLY laughing and whispering (we all work together ) i just don’t know what to do. i know i have jealousy issues and wish i could get over them.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re in love with someone who will never put you first. 😳 The problem you have is that you’ve chosen someone who does drugs, drinks a lot, is probably cheating on you, and has told you he’s not going to change. He’s made it very clear who he is and what his priorities are — and they don’t include you. You want him to be different, which isn’t a mature outlook on love. 🙁

If you stay with him, things will get worse. If you break up and move on, things will get better. 😉

Finding someone to date and have a relationship with will be successful if you know what you want and find someone compatible. This guy isn’t compatible with you in some ways that are deal breakers. It’s time for you to move on.

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[JohnLeger]

Your boyfriend is very irresponsible. If he really loves you, he would still prioritize you than anything else. Maybe it’s time for the two of you to have a serious talk about your relationship.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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