[utterlycrazy]

I love my boyfriend very much. We have been together for 5 and a half years. However, he is very relaxed about life and me. too relaxed in fact. Nowadays, we rarely get to meet because of my work schdule. He stays in the East and travels all the way to the West to his school. Even on Sundays, he’s lazy to come and meet me and and keeps saying its a Sunday, Sundays are rest days. When we meet, most of the time i’m the one who drops him home as I drive and he does not. He has done everything a guy shouldn’t do. he has chatted up girls online, he has gambled and gotten himself into trouble..yet i love him.
I feel that he is clearly taking me for granted. He also doesn’t call me or sms me that much during the day. He calls at night at around 11pm to say good night. He also wants to settle down now and buy a house. I’m confused. What should I do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

Does he have a job?

What kind of “trouble” has he gotten himself into?

[utterlycrazy]

He’s 28, and I’m 26. We are working full time. He has gambled before and choked up a huge debt. I was the one who lent him money from my credit card to pay off the debt..i know he loves me and he has told me that he’s still childish. I love him..but at times I feel jealous when i see when my friends hanging out with their boyfriends..they are so nice..giving them surprises, talking sweet nothings to them..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

My advice is that you should break up with him and move on. He loves you, but he’s not going to treat you very well — he’s made that clear with his words and his actions. 😳

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