[ashleeswts]

I don’t know where to begin…hmm…anyway from whichever point as long as i get my point across :)…I live in someone’s homestead as a tenant and i have lived there for almost 5 yrs now…i can say the relationship is somewhat cordial between the Landlord..his family and me… the firstborn son tried some moves on me but i declined the offer…to push the button, he somewhat got angry, kinda moved on and now sort of married {heck i don’t know..its confusing}…still tries to flirt with me but am not in that field :(…now my eyes have been on the younger cub {bro}…but then i decided..this isn’t fair for everyone…but still i could sense some kind of boy-girl connection between us…then he started avoiding me and i took the hint and i respected his space and backed off…feelings come and go right?!…so feelings on the younger bro dissipated and i moved on with my life…its only recently, i was clearing out my hoarding habit and i was in a giving mood…i gave him some headphones that were quite awesome but with a clear warning that giving him the headphones meant nothing…it was just a kind act..that’s all…then fate intervened and my bed kinda crumbled and am not so hands on in that area…this bed needed fixing…so i called on the sis to help me out but being feminine has it flaws at some-point….. she was insisting i ask her brother for help which i was half-hearted about {the headphones-given guy}, turns out he also..like really wanted to help and he went all out in fixing the bed..like too perfect…i got confused because that is rarely his element {doing an excessively good job}…now every-time we happen to have eye-contact…i don’t know whether we are flirting or what..and neither has the courage to voice what we feel…am just confused as to what is going on here…am so clueless when it comes to guy’s behaviour…am like in my head right now…asking myself, why he did such an awesome job, not that i wanted him to do a shoddy job nonetheless…these subtle hints he is sending mean what exactly?! {like wanting to help me fix the bed before i ask…or any other thing i might ask for help..he’s so willing…something he didn’t do before..sending his sis to ask if i have any office stationery he might use then return {things he never do}…I can’t ask my friends this question…the judgy-ness will smother me somehow…{a cougar running after a cub now?!} and they just might try to fix my life in that regard…that’s the drama i don’t need right now 🙂

April kindly help me fix my brain-box together…i need sanity
I appreciate.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t really know what your question is. 😕 If you have specific questions, I’m happy to help you, but asking me to “fix your brain box” isn’t something I can do. If you do write again, please tell me your age, as well as the ages of the other people involved, and fill me in a little more on the living situation. It sounds like you are living in a house with your landlord and his family, as a boarder. Is that right?

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[ashleeswts]

Thanks April…for the help of course 😕

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome, although I don’t think I helped you much….. you’ve got to give me specific questions, not just ask me to “fix your brain”. 😕 I’m here if you’ve got more input. 🙂 Feel free to work with me to get some advice. 😉

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