[Sparrow2012]

There is this girl who I really like. I should probably know her better but I always refrain from engaging her in conversation and usually become awkward, which in turn makes her awkward.

When I first met her I never expected her to like me so I was quite natural and relaxed around her, but that all changed when she tried to kiss me whilst on a night out. I was a little surprised and withdrew. I know I hurt her feelings as I could see it on her face.

This was about a year and half ago. since then we have seen each other loads of times on nights out, but I have always been awkward around her. The trouble is things are changing and people are not going out like they used to so I am not getting the opportunity to see her as much.

I only have facebook as a means to contact her which is difficult as it is pretty impersonal. I did see her the other week when I went to friends house. I was a little discouraged because the first thing she said to me was, “oh hi, I didn’t know you were coming tonight”. Although she did seem to generally laugh at my jokes and also liked my comment on her facebook status from that night. (a bit lame I know)

I know she has met someone who lives in another city, but she is quite open that it is not going to work due the distance .

I just need a way to see her more so I can get to know her. I know my awkwardness makes her awkward. I think she might be quite shy or maybe it is just me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Why don’t you ask her out on a date? 😉

You can pick her up in your car, take her somewhere, get to know each other futher and then bring her home again. If she has a good time, she’ll probably want to date you again!

😀 😀

Let me know how that goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[Sparrow2012]

I can’t ask her out on facebook, seems a little immature. I don’t have her number and I don’t know when I will see her again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you’re going to give up [b]that[/b] easily, disappointment will be your best friend. 😳

[i]Find a way to get her phone number and call her![/i] 😉

[Sparrow2012]

any suggestions how to get her number? it would be a bit out of the blue just asking for it online. it might weird her out

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Do you want me to chew your meat for you, too? 😯 You have to put a little elbow grease into this! 😉 Finding a woman’s phone number, when you’re already Facebook friends and have seen her at a mutual friend’s home, shouldn’t be brain surgery. C’mon, now…..

[Sparrow2012]

it’s not that… I don’t like the idea of getting her number through a mutual friend without her knowing, and asking on facebook seems a little impersonal . I just wanted an opinion, if a guy asked for your number of facebook would you find it weird?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It depends on how she feels about you. If she’s interested in you, and she sees you want her phone number, she’ll be happy. If she doesn’t think you’re interesting and you want her phone number, she’s not going to be thrilled. In addition to calling her, you can find out how to be around her — who her friends are, what she does — all the things guys do when they’re interested in a woman and try to chase her so they can date her. 😉

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