[farry]

Hi April, I’m in a relationship of 2 years with this guy. First year of our relationship, i know that his ex-girlfriend were still contacting him and try to convince him to get back to her and leave me. They broke up because he cant stand she always controlling him. From the beginning of our relationship he always convincing me that, there’s nothing between them anymore. Afraid of hurting my feelings, he sometimes didn’t tell me if his ex called. And i got to know, there is one time she asked him to go for coffee with her, because she wanted to tell her problem. He told me that he didn’t tell me because he knew that would hurt my feelings. And he assured me that nothing had happened. I always have doubts of were they still sleeping together when me and him already in this relationship? How do i know? Should I ask him? I nearly email his ex and ask about this. Should i do that? Or should i just let it go, because i know now he’s with me and we’re in a stable relationship? What is the right thing i should do? Should i investigate more for things that possibly happened for last one year? pls give me advice. This thing really bothers me… 🙁

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You should definitely not contact her. Since you have a stable two year relationship, focus instead on making it even better. If he wants to be with you, and you make him see you’re a fantastic girlfriend, you’ll really have no problems. Everyone has exes. You have to find a way to make YOUR relationship better than theirs was so even if she throws herself at him, he won’t want to risk losing you. 😉

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[farry]

Thanks so much April. I feel much better now and know what to do..thanks again! 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m so glad I could help!

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