[Anonymous]

OK… So here goes… 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a man that I used to date in high school for a bit. He moved away in our Freshman year so it had been 25 years since I had seen him. We ended up being in the same place, at the same time 4 weeks ago. We talked and talked and talked some more. He is soo different now than he was before. He used to be a clean cut cowboy and now he has long hair and a goatee and rides motorcyles. That to me is super sexy! He ended up taking me for a ride that night that we ran back into each other… We spent like 8 hours together that night. When I took him to where he was staying it was really hard to leave. We talked and texted each other every single day after that. It is soo nice to have this feeling inside of me. He is soo sweet and says the nicest things. I told him I felt it was like a fairytale and that this could not be happening. He says he feels the exact same way! Anyway, 2 weeks after that he road his motorcyle in the pouring rain for over 4 hours to come and visit me for the weekend. We had 3 days of the most wonderful time ever!! I could not have had more fun and he says the same thing. When he had to leave, it was soo hard. I have all of these feelings inside of me and I am not sure what to do with. After that weekend we talk and text even more than before… Seems like all day long. I dont want to leave my phone because I can’t wait for the next text. So as you can tell things have been going very well. I decided that after the last amazing 3 days that we had that I would go visit him for the weekend. He was soo excited that I was coming. He says that he feels like I am the one. That I am everywhere inside of him. He says that he hopes he can be the man that I need him to be and that he wants to be there for me everyday. Of course he says way more things than that and they are all amazing and make me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. So anyway, that next weekend I went to visit him and we had another amazing weekend together. The way he looks at me, the way he kisses me, just the way he holds me soo close. Everything inside of me tells me that he is the one for me. So here comes the question….. Its only been 4 weeks and I told him that I loved him….. He was super shocked and told me that he couldn’t believe it and that he loved me too. He said that he was trying so hard to figure out a way to tell me that would not scare me off. Everyone we are around tell us how amazingly happy we look together! I am soo happy, but I am also scared to death that I am falling to quickly…. We live 3 hours apart from each other so we do not get to see each that often. It is really hard. I have a great job where I am, I am buying a house and have a ton of bills also. I am a single mom of a little 4 year old daughter and I do not want to ruin her life. He is also buying a house where he is and has 2 children there. They are 14 and 11. I am soo into him that I wish I could just up and leave and go be with him but obviously I have way more things to think about and learn before I make a huge step like that. I just really want to know if this could actually be real or if I am trying too hard to make everything feel perfect? Any comments or concerns would be greatly appreciated… It is soo hard to be away from him. I makes my heart ache.

Hopelessly in Love….

[Ask April Masini]

So far so good! 😆 The trick now is not to rush into anything because there are three children between the two of you, ages 4, 11 and 14. It’s a lot easier to forge a relationship between two adults than it is to forge one between two adults and three children and their respective parents who WILL come into play.

So enjoy your romance, but take this very, very slow so that you make sure this isn’t an old friend who’s “flown under the radar” you use to normally decide if a man is appropriate to be in the lives of you and your daughter.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go — I’m sure there will be a lot to tell!

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