Yes I have received it! I am about half way through it and plan on finishing it sometime this week. So far it’s great!
I do have another update on my situation and question…maybe not the greatest update but I still have high hopes. This weekend we went out, just the two of us and had a blast! Danced, had some drinks made-out a little, overall a real fun time. Like I mentioned before, I have been less available and we have been hanging out about once a week during the weekends instead of 2-3 times a week about a month ago. Long story short, I tried advancing physically with her latter that night and wasn’t successful. She said she didn’t want things to escalate…naturally we started talking about what the two of us were. I told her I was looking for something more long term with her. She said she is looking for “me” time for once in her life and doesn’t want to be tied down to a relationship right now. She has always had a boyfriend and said she wants to have time for herself, which I respect and think it makes some sense. I then reacted by basically saying ok…since we’re not on the same page and we should probably both go our separate ways. She didn’t really like that but said if that’s what I wanted then she would respect it. My question is, do you think this was a irrational move on my part? I obviously still want to be with her, but am hoping if I give her complete space she will realize that maybe she does want to be with me. Do you think I still hold a chance? Was cutting ties with her a bad move? I really feel like if we were to keep hanging out things would stay the same and I’d have a much steeper slope to climb…and possibly end up in the friend zone which i don’t want. But by getting myself out of the picture completely I’m hoping the whole you don’t know what you had until you lost it thing could work.
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