[jeffcraft]

i just got out of a relationship 6 weeks ago, it was a long distance on line relationship she me the person she is with now where she met me . i still talk to my ex and im fine with that. what has me concerned is the guy she is dating now (she fell in love with him in the middle of our relationship) she sees him as perfect and that basically he can do no wrong she think he will never hurt her and wont even accept the possibiliy that he could hurt her or ever leave her, her exact words to me were “he has picked up the pieces you and kyle left and put them back together” im worried that she is going to get hurt bad but i dont know how to get this thru to her. i dont want to see her be destroyed by when the feeling of infatuation or romantic love or whatever you want to call it goes away. i noticed it was the same way with me i helped her out of an abusive relationship and in the beginning (relationship with kyle) it seemed like nothing i could do would hurt her but at the end i was still doing the same things that i was in the beginning as i was at the end she said that i changed and hurt her. what can i do to show her that what she is feeling right now is temporary?, it may seem like a mean thing to do but i am truly scared that she is going to get hurt bad because of it and i dont want to see that happen to her. i kinda get the feeling that in her relationships, that is what she is looking for to happen through the whole relationship the honeymoon phase i do still care about her and would like to have her back but ive accepted the fact that it wont happen cause she said it wont, i just dont want to see her get hurt bad and i dont know how to tell her this and actually get it thru to her. its fustrating cause i can see her getting hurt like she is setting her self up for a fall and she wont listen to me i dont know what to do everyone is telling me that i need to just stop talking to her and let her make her own mistakes but i cant in good concienc do that. what do i do.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She’s not your girlfriend any more. So, what she does, who she dates, and how she learns her lessons in relationships, aren’t your business — and shouldn’t be. 😕 I don’t mean to be harsh, but it’s not your responsibility to get involved in her life any more and it’s not going to be productive. You’re only six months out of the relationship, so it’s understandable you miss her and you’re thinking about her, but you need to stop talking to her and focus on yourself, and looking forward — to dating other women. 😉

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