[RealLove]

My ex b/f comes down to see me all the time at first it was very backward cause it has been 6 months since i broke up with him. and now he comes to see me every 3 months to 5 months and we hang for 3-5 days the most. Lately his behavior changed again towards me. he now text me or calls me for this month everyday for this week. the first week is was everyday the next week he didn’t talk to me until the mid week. and now he won’t stop talking to me every chance he gets he text me and calls me. now all of a sudden he knows so much about woman and relationships and what we think and how we feel? it’s kinda interesting. I still have have feelings for him we were together for 2 years in a half. Do you think he’s trying to get me back? or do u think he’s just playing a game? and why is he trying to get me back? if the answer is yes

[RealLove]

We were together for 2 years and a half and i broke up with him cause we didn’t want the same thing. So i stop talking to him for 6 months but during the course of the six months we talked on the phone not for long, I tried to let him go during the relationship i was working and in school and i helped him with everything even tho i was busy i made time for him. I tried to ignore him, so during the course of the next 6 months he would come and visit at my house and he lives 2 hours away from me. no he doesn’t just show up he makes like a date. And now every 3 months – 5 months he would come to see me and hang.For the past month he’s been calling me and texting me. for this whole month while he’s at work when he gets out of work and we would be on the phone all night. sometimes we don’t even say anything to each it’s kinda quite. I’m not sure what he’s doing. if he wants me back or just wanna have fun? what to do? and how do i handle it? ❓

[someoneinaustx]

I had to stop laughing before I could write my response. Your spelling and grammar are terrible, so I would quit worrying about boys and study a little more. I am not trying to be rude, but I am quite embarrassed for you if you hope to one day join the work force and earn a decent living.

Back to the topic of your post: relationships shouldn’t be so much work to determine where you stand in them. If they are, you shouldn’t be in it. Relationships are difficult, but determining your place in one isn’t. Ask the question. Ask him what he wants or what his intentions are. Do even care? Do you want him back? It sounds to me like there is just too much drama already, so you are better off moving on and finding someone with whom you are more compatible.

Good luck!

[kai]

I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.

If you want to get a response from April please repost your question in the proper forum which is the Q & A Advice Forum.

[kai]

I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.

If you want to get a response from April please repost your question in the proper forum which is the Q & A Advice Forum.

[Ask April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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