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Im wondering if my boyfriend is gay and how i talk to him?

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    Kasteroni
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    OKay so I’ve been dating this guy for a month and a couple weeks now. We have known each other since middle school, and are currently dating this senior year. Honestly my friends and I thought he was gay, but when he asked me to be his girlfriend i was honestly surprised.
    Why, you ask?
    ~he has impeccable fashion sense
    ~he worries about his hair more than i do ( and thats saying something)
    ~his older sisters claim that he takes longer in the bathroom than they do
    ~he’s really smart, and extremely shy
    And from dating him, I’ve recently found out:
    ~he has a garden (and not a pot garden which would be very straight)
    ~ watches the tv show Friends, and loves it
    ~when he talks his hands are positioned “gayly” (no offense to readers)
    ~our kisses only last like two seconds (its been long enough time for us to make out)
    ~almost all of his friends are girls
    HOWEVER, he calls me babe and stuff, I would be his first girlfriend, he grew up with two sisters, so maybe that has something to do with his femininity? Or maybe he’s just painfully shy?
    In conclusion what im asking is, should i just wait until we eventually makeout in order to see if hes like sexually attracted to me, how would i know if my boyfriend is gay, and if he is gay how do i confront him about it? 😕

    #21284

    Nothing you’ve written indicates that your boyfriend is gay. I wouldn’t assume he’s gay — especially if he’s chosen to date you instead of a guy. 😉 If you continue to be uncomfortable with him, then maybe you’re not a good match, but if you’re enjoying the relationship and so is he, there’s no reason to assume he’s anything but a nice guy who happens to like the TV show, Friends, and nice clothes, etc. 😀

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    #21157
    Kasteroni
    Member #124,430

    Thanks so much, i didnt confront him about it yet, which is good. Im glad that i had a professional opinion before i listen and act on my friends queries( haha pun..sort of). 😛

    #21276

    You’re welcome. 😀

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