[Anonymous]

my boyfriend used to be all over me all the time! paying me compliments and he was very interested sexually , in the start we had a very good sexual relationship and he had a very high sex drive as did i … but recently he shows no interest in me, no longer paying me compliments infact he doesnt even kiss me i kiss him! this is a huge comparison to how he used to be! i just cant understand how he could change, i have a feeling he may be cheating :/ or is this just me being paranoid? we havnt had sex in a while even though we see each other frequently , it used to be him who initiated it but no its always me ! and i feel rejected and unloved when he says ” im not in the mood!” … im aware that sex isint everything in a relationship but the sudden change in ours has made me wonder if he is cheating because if hes not getting it from me then he muct be getting it from someone else right!?

[ankit]

As relationship grows sometime these things happen . Don’t think like he is cheating or something else . Maybe he is too busy with his work or something like this . You can talk to him regarding this . In love try new ways to impress him ,people think that all these things are not necessary ,but it is for sure . As if your father hugs you ,you would definitely feel good instead of he just say this .In love relations all these things play crucial role .Try finding new things in life to do with him ,this would definitely change his mind at this point in time or some other time .

[kai]

I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

[b]This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions. [/b]

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