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Is he interested? Now what do I do!?

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    kay4321
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    Before i start i should warn you, I am new to this whole dating thing. I never go on real dates and have no idea how to deal with guys! I was in a 3 year relationship 2 years ago and since then i really havent dated much.

    My friend set me up on a blind double date 1 week ago with my friend, her boyfriend, and her boyfriends friend. We went to a bar and had a really good time. My date was a little drunk and later admitted that he drank too much before because he was nervous about meeting me. My friend ended up feeling sick so we all went back to her house. We made some food, talked, and flirted. My date and I stayed out in the living room. He wanted to cuddle so I laid on the couch with him and we talked for hours. We made out a little and had seemed to be really hitting it off. He even commented on how well this night went. When we both finally got tired I went over and slept on a different couch. (Yay!)

    In the morning we all woke up and joked around, watched TV and my date still seemed to be flirting and making conversation. This got a little weird when I left. I had to be driven back to my car, and a few other friends came over so I didnt really get to say goodbye to my date. We didnt exchange numbers, but I thought things had gone really well.

    I thought if he was interested he would get my number from my friend, but didnt. She talked to him later in the week and said that he told her he had a really good time. He would go out again to the bar or something, but wanted to get to know me better. Is this all a good thing or a bad thing?

    Now im stuck if I should get his number and text him or just wait until i bump into him again. Which could be soon. My friend talked about hanging out again next weekend with them.

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    diamondmoney
    Member #102,001

    Go out with him again is also a way to know him more. Also just wait for him to ask your number, dont be so easy..

    #20310

    [b]diamondmoney[/b] has the right idea! Don’t be so easy!! 😮

    If you want to be someone’s girlfriend, you have to act like the girlfriend you want to be. Don’t YOU text or call him first. Let him be the one to pursue you! 😉 If he does, then you’ll know he’s interested, and if he doesn’t, you’ll know he’s not. So for now, do nothing — except live your life and DON’T wait by the phone. Men like women who are interesting and have their own lives, not those who are needy, clingy and waiting by the phone, hoping it will ring! 😉

    I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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