[IwannafeelWEIGHTLESS]

Ok so I went into the bank to straighten something out with my account. My banker was a totaallllll cutie. He was really friendly with me. He asked me where I was going to school and where I graduated and all that. When I told him where I graduated he kept the conversation going by asking me if I ever went to this country dance club a buncha people in that area go to. And kept being very friendly. So our time was done and I left.

I just had to see him again. I wanted to let him know that I was interested in him. I got all cute and went up there again to “change my pin number” haha. Well unfortunately, I got a different guy this time :/.
SO! I wasn’t giving up and I was determined to give him my number. I actually did need to change my address because I really did move haha. But I waited a couple days. I go in and the lady sets me up with him. He automatically looks at me and smiles and says hey did you have a good weekend?? I was so nervous I could hardly answer but I just said yeah it was alright. He asked if I did anything fun and all that. Anywho…..he kept asking me questions that had nothing to do with banking. Like asked me if I worked and where I told him no cuz I’m gonna be on SSI while I’m going through school. And I explained why I have these checks coming in yada yada ya….THEN he goes so do you live alone or do you live with a roommate? I said no I live alone. He said ahh don’t you get lonely? I said no I have a dog. He asked about my dog and junk. I said do you live alone? He said no I lived with my parents and didn’t move out till I found a roommate so I live in an apartment with my roommate right now. [I’m pretty sure he said “him” so I know it’s a dude] Ok, so I stand up and pull my phone number with my first and last name on it and I hand it to him and say “here if you ever wanna hang out or something, just give me a call. I live around here so ya know” he said ” haha [smiling] ok cool” I got the hell outa there cuz I was so embarrassed. I said alrighty thanks. he said Bye have a good day. I said you too see ya later.

I gave him my number Monday morning. The bank closes at 6pm and it is Wednesday and I haven’t heard from him. How long does this usually take? It’s insane how into me he seemed. We hardly talked about my account. Am I looking into it too much? Was he just being friendly?
My mom told me that if he doesn’t text me or call me to go up there in like 2 or 3 weeks to order checks [I actually need to do that asap but I’m waiting to do it] And when I get in there with him to be like “hey you should have called me this past weekend….I had people over and we played beer pong and cornhole….it was a lota fun.” and see what he says.

What the hell do I do?!! I have NOOOOO idea why I care so much about this dude….I don’t hand out my number like that so yeah I was pretty fricken nervous. He was just so nice and cute….By the way he’s graduated [25 yrs old] I’m a student [20 yrs old< in a month]

[b][size=150]PLEASE HELPPPPP!!![/size][/b]

[AskApril Masini]

If he wants to call you he will. If he doesn’t he won’t.

My advice is to back off. It’s much better to let the guy do the asking. He may have been taken aback by your giving him your number without his having asked for it. If you go back to the bank again, don’t push him at all. Just be charming. Smile, flirt and be coy — but don’t be too forward. Let him be the one to make any future moves — and if he doesn’t, move on! 😀

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[IwannafeelWEIGHTLESS]

Yeah but he couldn’t make a move cuz he’s my banker. Do you think that’s what’s stopping him from calling?

[AskApril Masini]

I think you’re trying to make excuses for his lack of action. 😳 If he can’t make a move because he’s your banker, then how do you expect him to accept your invitation? That excuse cuts both ways — if he isn’t asking you out because of bank policy, then he shouldn’t be able to accept your invitation to go out, either, for the same reason. If the bank has a policy that employees can’t date customers, I think he’d tell you as much if he was truly interested, but instead of spending any more time on a guy who isn’t asking you out — or isn’t able to ask you out — find a man who is available to do so! You’ll have a lot more fun and spend a lot less time wondering. 😉

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[IwannafeelWEIGHTLESS]

Alright I’ll just move past that thing. Thanks for the advice!

[AskApril Masini]

You bet — and good luck! 😀

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