Hi, I’m really confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. I’ll try to make it short… so, we’ve been together for nearly two years and we really love each other. We happen to have arguments sometimes, but who doesn’t? But after all the time we spent together I wondered if he is the one. I would like to have kids some time in future and I don’t need to get married but I feel I’m ready to move on in our relationship with for example moving in together. Not necessarily right now, but I hope we could do it. However, my bf seems to be terrified of a possible future, he hates to promise anything and he likes living with his parents, even though I love him and he loves me, he still seems to be unsure. I tried to talk to him many times but he seems confused. It’s been two months since I first opened up the topic and it’s still the same. Chances are, he might change his opinion but I hate this kind of insecurity. Do you think I should give up on him and find someone who’ll feel the same way? I’m exhausted because he doesn’t wanna talk about it much and I hate feeling that I’m pushing him. Btw. I’m in my late twenties, he is in his mid thirties. Thanks for any comments.
