My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and i feel that he has helped me see my life in a more positive way and i’m happy when i’m around him. We get along really well. He was brought up in a home where his parents did everything for him and didn’t give him guidance in regards to manners, etc. so he is working on that. He has had a full-time job since april and recently got a raise and promotion. my parents are judging him for every little thing he does. For example, he came to visit our farm and helped us harvest our garden but didnt put his full effort in the whole time and i had to asked him to help me with dishes. My parents see these both as terrible things and cant see what i see in him and i wanna know if he is really as bad as they think?