[topgun18]

I asked out the girl i liked a few days back to which she said “No, things are not working out at the moment, if in the future then we shall see”, so i said “things are over, lets be friends”. But she ended the conversation that day that “I still like you and am very fond of you, my feelings towards you remain unchanged. Like i wanted you to stay back home last night.”. and also tells me that the kisses, etc were not a mistake and she meant it. Next day she says she is strangely missing me.
Also, after this we had gone out where she got out two incidences where she kept telling me “oh damn I am still single”. I finding it weird kind of pulled back and started being very coldish.

Also tonight she is tweeting about the guy, who was giving her a lot of attention earlier and she said she was not interested, but she is on late night drives and tweeting and status on Blackberry about him. Gosh

So for a couple of days she was warm enough but, now she is very cold and distant. What the hell is happening here, please advice, I am confused beyond my wits

[AskApril Masini]

Don’t be confused. You’re dealing with a woman who isn’t sure what she wants. If you try to figure out what someone wants, when THEY don’t know what they want, you’re going to end up confused — guaranteed. 😉 She wants you; then she friend zones you; then she laments she’s single…… She isn’t interested in a committed, monogamous relationship with you, but she is interested in bopping around and killing time with dating — or the precursors to dating. My advice? Don’t invest any more energy in her. The reason for this is that you’ll stop being confused because you’ll stop wondering what someone who is confused intends, and most women are more interested in guys who aren’t Mr. Nice Guy, and aren’t hanging on their every word or text or e-mail. If you move on, she’s going to be more interested in you.

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[topgun18]

I asked the girl i like a few weeks back to which she said “As of now No but i dont know about future if something happens”. Thus we did not talk to 3 – 4 days and suddenly out of the blue she messages me saying “Baby, I havent seen your face since ages.” We were supposed to go for a concert, which she was inclined that the two of us go for together but we ended up going separately. She asked me a lot to meet her somehow and she also told me that she is cautious because she thought i was distant and aloof.
We met eventually where she gave me a lot of attention and it felt like she wanted to be with/around me. I asked her if she would come for a beer with me, she said yes. I met my other friends whom I asked to join they agreed. Suddenly out of the blues she said “No, I will go home and catch up on some sleep.”

Does she like me, still? and does she want to have more out of this friendship now

[topgun18]

I asked the girl i like a few weeks back to which she said “As of now No but i dont know about future if something happens”. Thus we did not talk to 3 – 4 days and suddenly out of the blue she messages me saying “Baby, I havent seen your face since ages.” We were supposed to go for a concert, which she was inclined that the two of us go for together but we ended up going separately. She asked me a lot to meet her somehow and she also told me that she is cautious because she thought i was distant and aloof.
We met eventually where she gave me a lot of attention and it felt like she wanted to be with/around me. I asked her if she would come for a beer with me, she said yes. I met my other friends whom I asked to join they agreed. Suddenly out of the blues she said “No, I will go home and catch up on some sleep.”

Does she like me, still? and does she want to have more out of this friendship now

[AskApril Masini]

I gave you my advice and my interpretation of the situation, but you didn’t take it. Now you’re back in the same situation. Here it is again — read it! 😉

[quote]….You’re dealing with a woman who isn’t sure what she wants. If you try to figure out what someone wants, when THEY don’t know what they want, you’re going to end up confused — guaranteed. She wants you; then she friend zones you; then she laments she’s single…… She isn’t interested in a committed, monogamous relationship with you, but she is interested in bopping around and killing time with dating — or the precursors to dating. My advice? Don’t invest any more energy in her. The reason for this is that you’ll stop being confused because you’ll stop wondering what someone who is confused intends, and most women are more interested in guys who aren’t Mr. Nice Guy, and aren’t hanging on their every word or text or e-mail. If you move on, she’s going to be more interested in you. [/quote]

You’re asking the same question two weeks later because you’re not accepting the answer to it. She’s all over the place and isn’t sure what she wants. If you want to continue to invest in someone who’s going to drag you along on a wild goose chase that runs hot and cold, then you’re on the right path, but my advice is to find someone who wants to be with you and is clear on that! And…. don’t invest time in a woman who’s all over the map. 😉

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[danielbrown]

I agree with April. You are wasting your time. She is not interested in the relation. Girls are like this… They just want the guy to pamper them, talk with them, share their Problems, and hang out with them. Guy Starts fell for her. But whenever you ask her about this she refuses. So just be her friend don’t involve more than that. If she feels for you the same she will come to you.

[AskApril Masini]

[b]Danielbrown[/b] is giving you good advice! Move on… 😀 And find someone who’s clear about what they want — so you can be, too. 😉

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[lovendar]

Yes, it seems to me that she is interested in you. Please read her carefully and understand her feelings. Offer some gifts too to her, she will love the idea and offer you too. Girls mostly replies after taking some time and even we have to understand their feelings.

[AskApril Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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