[Hesham_3del]

Hello,

I will go straight into the topic

There is a girl in the class I attend with her which looks often at me and all what I want to know what this means

I’m a shy guy and after a couple of search over yahoo answers, I found that either the girl is attracted to me or I’m a
wired looking guy

I’m a good looking guy, and many people tells me that you are somehow cute

here is one of the best answers I came across

“if she did it often (more than a couple of times) she must be attracted to you. often girls don’t smile, i often don’t
unless i already know the guy or i have at least spoken to him. often shy girls look but don’t smile too. i’d probably
just wait and see what she does over the next few classes you have together, then go from there.”

We had eye contact, maybe 3 or 4 each class, plus I notice that she looks at me while I’m not eye contacting her, as my angle of view is wide so I can see her looking at me and I’m looking for something else

there was a eye contact I can’t forget, usually the eye contact is for milliseconds, but
this eye contact for 1 or 2 seconds and then I waved my head away from her eyes, but her face was normal looking, no smiles, no wired looking, just a normal face.

She sat behind me one day and asked me about something and I replied

1) Is the girl attracted to me ?! If yes, could you please clarify on what basis you said “Yes” ?!

2) A friend told me that she is not a good girl and want any guy to date him, is there a chance for that ?!

3) How can I deal with her ?!

4) Is she really trying to open a discussion with me ?!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re avoiding the real issue here: It sounds like you want to ask this girl out on a date and you’re scared of being rejected so you’re looking for every piece of evidence that it’s safe to approach her so you won’t get shot down. And…. you’re spending way too much time on “research”. 😕

My advice is that you stop focusing on her and focus on YOU! 😉 Rejection is part of the territory when it comes to relationships, and if you never put yourself up to bat, you’ll never get a chance to connect with the ball — or strike out. You’ll stay paralyzed — which is where you are now, spinning up a cloud of anxiety. 😳

So just go talk to her!

And….. I’m going to answer your questions, below, but I hope you’ll really consider my advice above. 😉

[quote]1) Is the girl attracted to me ?! If yes, could you please clarify on what basis you said “Yes” ?[/quote]

Probably, but I can’t tell based on what you’ve written. You’d have to talk to her and see if she likes you when you do.

[quote]2) A friend told me that she is not a good girl and want any guy to date him, is there a chance for that? [/quote]

I have no idea. How would you know if she’s ‘a good girl’ or not unless you talk to her? Don’t rely on gossip. 🙄

[quote]3) How can I deal with her ?![/quote]

I don’t understand your question. What does “deal with her” mean?

[quote]4) Is she really trying to open a discussion with me ?![/quote]

No. She’s just looking at you. When someone tries to open a discussion, they say something. 😉

Hope that helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[Hesham_3del]

I forgot to add something

Day 3

1st Session :-

I entered that class and sat in the disk as I like to sit and behind me the wall.

She came in and there was somehow some free disks to sit in, but she sat behind me ” What I want to say in that

maybe she like to sit and the wall is behind her like me, why not ?! “

The session started but and the teacher said something while she was busy for a seconds, so asked me did he say

something, I told her no.

She had a word that she didn’t understand it and I told her about it’s meaning and this was the 2nd contact between

me and her for the 1st session.

2nd Session :-

Someone sat in the disk that she was sitting in

We had some eye contact but there was a eye contact I can’t forget, usually the eye contact is for milliseconds, but

this eye contact for 1 or 2 seconds and then I waved my head away from her eyes, but her face was normal looking,

no smiles, no wired looking, just a normal face.

We are done for now, as the last sessions was yesterday.

Hint :- She was sitting with a guy in the 1st and 2nd session and the break between the two sessions and I saw them kidding, but what about me ?!

and for sure I will work on the advice 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure why you’re sending me this. 😕

[Hesham_3del]

for this question 🙂

4) Is she really trying to open a discussion with me ?!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re not taking my advice…. 😳 You have to stop focusing on her, and focus on [i]yourself[/i]. If YOU want to open a conversation with her, then YOU have to do so. If you continue to be passive and wait for her to take the lead, you’ll lose out. Women really like men who are confident, self-assured and know what they want.

Figure out what [b]you[/b] want, instead of wondering what everyone else wants. 😉

[Hesham_3del]

I believe in your advice believe me 🙂

But please understand me 🙂

I’m out from 2 bloody stories and my life currently is in a miserable condition

I want this girl really, I love her

and I’m asking you as a girl to you could help me

I know I’m a doing a lot of research, but there is symptoms and I like to deal with it

What I mean is, if I’m asking about you everyday, and caring about you, and what makes you cry makes me also cry and vice versa for happiness, so what you can call that except that I love you ?!

In the class there is more than 5 girls, form 6 – 7 maybe, and this girl is concentrating with me, actually the other girls forget me or can’t notice me 😀

So, is she attracted ?!

If you was in her shoes and you are acting like her as I stated

What the message you want to deliver for me, what you want me to understand ?!

I’m not acting as a teenager actually, but I want to finish this issue the way it’s meant to be for me

MARRIAGE 🙂

Thank you really for help me out and if you don’t mind, I will keep updating the topic till I’m with her 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t know if she’s attracted to you enough to date you.

And obviously, neither do you.

She’s the only one who knows, and if you don’t ask her out, you’ll never get the answer.

Do it! 😉

[Hesham_3del]

April…

For God sake 🙂

I’m attracted to her believe me

you know what, you just said that I’m not attracted because I feel there is barriers between me and her

but everyday, before I go to sleep while I’m laying on the bed, I’m thinking of her

What the continues looks mean then ?!

How can I kill the fear inside me ?!

When you used to make something, how you get the PUSH ?!

I want some sort of Adrenaline push 😀

I’m in love with her dear April, but the dear inside me is killing me

Answer my questions please

and I feel that you started to be annoyed from me, I’m really sorry, but I’m thinking 48 hours in the 24 hours in this issue

Really sorry

[April Masini, your AskApril]

This is simple — but you continue to create drama where there is none.

[i][b]Ask her out on a date.[/b][/i]

If you don’t, someone else will. 😳 Or…. you you’ll keep complaining to whoever will listen to you about how you love her, but you’ve got a million excuses for not asking her out.

I’m sorry, but that’s really all I can do for you.

If you want to win a woman over, you actually have to do the work. 😉

[Hesham_3del]

You are giving me the push dear April 🙂

It’s really a take it or leave it deal

but you didn’t answer my questions

1) What the continues looks mean then ?!

2) How can I kill the fear inside me ?!

3) When you used to make something, how you get the PUSH ?!

and you have my word, the coming Thursday, I will MOVE and I will post here what I’ve done

Waiting the answers 😉

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sorry, but I’ve given you a lot of help here already, and I can’t continue to keep doing so. I’d be repeating myself.

This is a free service for people who want help and are willing to do the work.

Good luck!

[Hesham_3del]

Okey, I’m Sorry.

I will work and update you on the come Thursday

until then, I would apologize if I was a headache for you, I totally didn’t mean it.

But please, help me if you found that I really need the help.

I will work as I gave you a word.

Thank you a lot for being nice and helpful for me and I’m Sorry again

[Hesham_3del]

Hi,

I used to talk about here about a girl which I had a crush on and I love her

We had too much eye contact and she was concentrating with me while I was chatting with my friend and sat behind once in the class and asked me a question

I was somehow seeing that she is attracted to me, and the problem is that I didn’t have the push to talk her, but at last I talked.

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She is with me in the Deutsche class and I’m making notes for our final exam, I asked my friend to introduce me to her

I talked with her and she gave me her mobile number in case I need help with the notes.

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After, I got her e-mail.

I’m making the notes for the whole class and I’m going to share it, so I told them to show up a paper and to write their e-mails so that I share the notes with them.

She was the 1st one to write her e-mail and wrote her name beside the e-mail although the e-mail contains her e-mail.

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She was absent from the class the week before our last class, I told her if you want the notes now I can grab it, she told me yes please.

The TA “Teacher Assistant” was checking them and told me 15 min. and you can get it, I called her and told her can you wait to get them, told me sorry, I leaving the college after 10 min.

Are you coming on Saturday “today”, I told her yes, then OK, I will call you to get them, OK,OK, bye, bye

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1) She didn’t call ?!!

2) I have a feeling, I have the feeling that she doesn’t want me now, was I too late as she waited for me too much ?!

3) What is my next move, shall I just sit and wait till I meet her or waiting for her call, shall I call her ?!

4) If you have anything you want to add, please add and help me out

Thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

As I told you last month, [i]if you want to ask her out on a date, then you should do it[/i]. 😉 Don’t sit around waiting for the planets to align.

If you want more dating advice, you should read Date Out of Your League: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It’s a GREAT book for you because it will give you lots of tips and advice and explain to you how to get the girl. It’s only $8.99 and you can purchase it as an automatically downloaded e-book at this link.

Hope that helps! Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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