[ilovehim]

ok so i am 15 as is my bf we have been together since Christmas but liked eachother ALOT and talked a year before we dated. Well we werent together in november and this girl *kasey liked him and he talked to her. at this time i had a bf and so it wasnt a big deal. well now me and kasey are like realllly good friends and she is his close friend. i have no problem with this since i allow him to have friends who are girls, i am a naturally jealous person but ive worked on it since i dont want to be one of them girlfriends who are too controlling and the guy leaves.so anyways today kasey was going to have a bonfire i wouldve went but i was busy well it rained so her mom rented a movie instead…well my bf is going and im wondering if i should be worried. when he told me he was going i was okay with it i just asked if he would tell me if he kissed another girl or anything and he said of course…and so is this ok? or should i have gotten somewhat mad?

[Ask April Masini]

I don’t think there was anything to get mad about. In high school, it’s hard not to socialize with the same group of people for four years, and since Kasey dated your boyfriend before you did, and is now friends with both of you, it doesn’t sound like it’s out of the ordinary for her to invite you both to a bonfire or a movie in her home. I think you didn’t go, and your natural jealousy got the best of you.

It sounds like it was a group of people who were going to the bonfire, and then went to the movie instead. There’s not a lot of harm in your boyfriend being part of a group that included his ex-girlfriend who is now friends with both of you.

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