[tamara92]

Ok, so this is my story. The guy I like was in town for a few weeks and he asked me out. We went out, we got drunk, after we got high and went to his hotel. Obviously we had sex after. (which wasn’t so great because there was alcohol and weed involved) After that, we cuddled for 2 hours and he begged me to stay for a sleep at his place. I still went home in the morning, but I forgot my jacket there.

He called the next day asking me when do I want to pick up my jacket. I told him it’s fine, I’ll take it someday when we meet. 3 days later I ran on him and he was like “I’m gonna call you soon to give you your jacket or I just leave it somewhere so you can pick it up”

I really like this guy, so I couldn’t wait. I called him yesterday and he said he was busy (he really is but still…) which means that I got dumped.

I should probably get over him, but I can’t so I need to know if there’s any hope. Thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Probably not. 😳 If he wants to see you, he will. If he wants to call you, he will. If he wants to send you flowers or try to stay in touch, he will.

I never recommend sleeping with a guy too soon because you don’t really get to know him; he doesn’t really get to know you; your judgment is impaired so you’re more likely to lose control and sleep with him too soon, sex changes things, and he’s not going to think of you as girlfriend material — he’ll think of you as one night stand material.

Use what you’ve learned to do things differently next time you go out with a guy you like. 😉 That’s the silver lining.

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