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let her go or get her back?

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    So I met a girl through a friend and we hit it off really fast. We were sexually active after only a few days. After 2 weeks of seeing each other we decided to make it official. We went to colleges that were an hour and a half apart but we visited each other almost every weekend for the month that we were still in school. We both came home for the summer and it started off great. We had a few small arguments but nothing major but 2 months into the relationship I noticed she was acting strange.

    She was never the best texter, and would often times forget we were texting and leave her phone somewhere mid conversation, but for about a week it was really bad and it seemed like she couldnt find any time for us. The night before our 2 month aniversary date she basically told me on the phone that things were moving way too fast and she wasnt sure if its what she wanted right now at 20 yrs old.

    Its only been 3 days but I still like her very much. All my friends think I am stupid because she has embarassed me multiple times with her drinking, but I am legitimately attracted to her. Even though deep down I think it might be best for me to move on, it is hard for me to get the thought of getting back together out of my mind. I havent called/texted her since the breakup, and would really like some advice as to what I should do.

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    From what you’ve written about her behavior it doesn’t sound like she actually broke up with you — rather, she put the brakes on the speed of the relationship. If that’s true, it seems like you can still ask her out on dates and see if you can compromise by seeing her and dating her without pressuring her into a serious relationship before she’s ready for one. At age 20, she isn’t wrong to want to slow things down, however, you’re not wrong to want more, either. 🙂 This situation is due for a compromise — not necessarily a clean break up.

    I hope that helps.

    And…I hope you’ll check me and join in on the chat at my new website, AskApril.com on Facebook. You can find me and become a group member at this link [url][/url]. 😀

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