[quote]I was so worried about him i tried to reach his roommate through facebook and I asked him about my bf and I told him about our relationship he told me what is my bf busy with and that he is not in his apartment these days but the problem now is that when he’ll come back he’ll discover what i have done and he’ll be so mad i don’t know how can i explain it!![/quote]
You definitely shouldn’t have contacted your long-distance boyfriend’s roommate, considering the nature of the relationship, but since you did, all you can tell your boyfriend is that you were worried. Clearly, if he wanted to contact you he would have, but since he didn’t, he was trying to have some privacy in his life from you, and you don’t want him to have that privacy. 😕 Long distance relationships aren’t for everyone, and you have to really decide if long distance is going to work for you.
[quote]I don’t think I can live with someone who hides everything!! [/quote]
Nor should you! If you think he’s hiding everything, then he’s not really Mr. Right. 😉
[quote]can I fix it or we should leave each other?? what do you suggest?[/quote]
I’m not sure what you want to fix. 😕 He’s being very clear that he wants privacy from you, and you’re being very clear that you don’t want him to have that privacy. If there’s something or someone to fix, you can work on yourself. 😉 If you’ve only seen your boyfriend for two months out of twelve, and he’s not giving you an indication that he’s interested in more, then you might want to consider that he’s not the one for you! My advice is that you date men who are ready and willing to make the kind of relationship commitment you’re looking for — but before you do that, YOU have to be clear about what it is you really want. 😉 Long-distance and low commitment? Local and committed? The choices are yours.
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