I’m very sorry you’re hurt. It sounds like you have the information you need — you just don’t like what you have. 😳 He’s broken up with you, and he’s done it without any grace or kindness. Unfortunately, sometimes that happens.
What you can do now is try and learn from this relationship. Obviously, you didn’t know him as well as you thought you had — so next time you’re dating someone, use the process to really investigate and explore the person you’re dating and the chemistry and relationship you have so that you see flashing yellow lights in the road before they turn into break ups. 😉 It sounds like you got too invested too quickly! 😮 (Your counting a six month mark in the relationship as an anniversary instead of seeing it as a time in the relationship when you figure out if the relationship is going in the direction you want it to, is evidence of a premature emotional investment.) And your birthday is something that you can celebrate with friends and family, as you probably had in the past.
Don’t contact him — it’s over, albeit abruptly in your eyes. He doesn’t owe you any explanation. He’s made it clear that the relationship has come to an end. It’s time to move on and use this experience to guide you towards Mr. Right! 😀
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