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i have been with my wife for 10 yrs, We have 3 great kids they are younger . but we have never seem to see eye to eye on anythingshe tels me im worthless or im lazy or i cant stand you , me i just distance my self and i know that doent fix things . i know im not the greatest thing to ever walk this earth. she has recently got check at the doctors and told her she is depreesed they gave her meds and sleeping pills to help her sleep . it has bee only three weeks know and it almost seems like things are getting worse. what should i do ? please help im on my last straw i have thought about divorce.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

There’s a saying: [i]Kill them with kindness.[/i] It might be good for you to invoke now. Sometimes when people treat you poorly, your instinct is to be defensive or to lash out. Try the opposite and instead, understand that something is bothering her deeply. Bring her flowers. Tell her how much she means to you. Write her love letters and bring her little gifts. See if you can’t inspire some of the old romance you once had that drew you together. Ten years and three kids is a lot and she might just need some very consistent TLC to bring her back to who she once was.

Let me know if that works.

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