Hi April,
I have a dream girl that i love for 8 years already. 2 years back we have some gd times for about 3mths.
Now we have lasted for abt 7 mths. We are very close, but yet unable to be together. I have proposed to her, she said she need time to think it true carefully and see if i am the right guy for her. She said she like me very much, but she cant develop the love feeling. Over this issue, i have became insecure and pressured her during the last mth. We argued quite badly and quite often. We seems like a couple, but yet she cant accept me. She said i am a very important person to her, so important that she cant bear to leave. 3 weeks back, we have a very heavy argument, and it seems like everything ended. she decided she cant love me and i am not the one because we quarreled too much. She has said to me this before,” if we cant be together, i will try my best to keep u as my friend by my side”. Now it seems as though she is too pressure by me, even as a friend she feel im pressuring her. I really wanted to keep her as my friend as well, because she is my advisor and a companion. Is there anyway, i can get to ask her be my friends? n not a acquaintance?. OR shld i really let it go, and how shld i do it? please advice me. because i have been thinking day and night over this, and no matter how much i try to let go, i cant.
thank you and take care
gun4me
