Hi,
I have been in love with this guy and he loves me alot too. He has taken me to his home and i chat with his brother and his family approves of our love. But he is not properly settled financially. we both have been working only for 3 years now & his career has taken a slower path while i grew fast and now has a good offer at hand to fly abroad. My family (parents nd bro) need my support financially and im planning to take a mortgage to buy them a house. In this scenario my family feels i should go for a well settled person and get married as that would make my life easier. on the contrast, if i marry my boyfriend, my life wouldnt be flexible as he needs to still settle down himself and it could lead us into a fiancial turmoil which might even end up our relation. this is what my parents think. so they tell me to quit my boyfriend now and let him go on with his life rather later when we end up in all financial problems and then break up. I know my boy friend is very good and loves me alot so i feel i might regret it if i leave him. But i feel very much responsible towards my family as well.
Please advise me – what should i do now??!! 😥
Thanks,
Goldylocks.(Female aged:24)
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