Hi April,
I met a girl through a guy. And thought she is a regular girl, but turns out she is not telling me everything. The other guy and I meet this girl at the same time and I talked to her on phone and told her I’m interested and she too was into me. The girl and I are not serious. We know that we won’t marry and agreed to an open relationship, But unfortunately I told the other guy about this thing and then after a few days the girl came to know that I told him . How? I wondered and few days later I noticed both of their phones are busy at the same time…
What happened here I think is the other guy called her and took advantage of our open relationship thing and told her not to tell a word to me or I’ll be mad at her.
But I just want to know what’s happening. I don’t have a problem with that girl talking to any guy. I asked her casually once and I confronted him more than once but they don’t say a thing. We all get this feeling when people talk about things we told to somebody else. That’s happening to me now. They just don’t tell me out of fear, I think. and I want her to tell me. She likes me that I can be sure of.. How do I make her to tell me without making her look character less or like that..
Am I the only one to think that they are talking behind my back? After all this and more I have a strong feeling this is all real. What should I do?
Thanks.