[monroe87]

Me and my ex broke up this year in the beginning of March the break up was a result of financial issues and not showing him enough love.We were both depressed in our relationship we didn’t really go out as a couple we had no money we lost our apartment and we moved in his moms house..decided to get married in dec 2011 since we didnt have much $$ but wanted to be together forever we did a fake wedding the person marrying us was a longtime buddy of his and have our whole fam and friends there, only me and him and his fam were the only ones to know it was fake then once we have the money we would go to court and make it legal.Well after two months we had an argument and he ended it and took his ring off then said “I’m not doing this to be with anyone we will get back together just now is not the time”..I moved out with our kids(we have two kids) then two weeks after that he moved on with his ex girlfriend they kept in contact since high school..he never told me. I found out by friends online even though i saw him often when it was his turn with the kids..I went to his house to pick up the kids and there were stuff i had not seen including two dogs I asked his mom she said shes babysitting for a neighbor..turns out the ex moved in and he never said a word.Now a month after they been together I receive text saying he misses me and do I think about us and he cant stop thinking about me..he even unexpectedly kissed me once and called to say sorry twice..months pass by he still says he loves me and has even confessed a friend of mine that he still has feelings for me and kind of loves the other girl.
This is really confusing if hes with someone who gives him what he always wanted all the love and attention why does he even bother to say these things to me and sometimes grab my hand Hugged me tight.
this month i told him i was dating someone and he stopped saying i love you and didn’t even hug me..now I found out by friends again that he got married for real (cause we never got the chance to make it legal) to her
?????? I don’t get it all in this year..when he confessed to my friend it was a week before the wedding and mentioned their relationship is ok.
I think he moved on to soon and married to soon even though they were friends since high.
whats wrong with his brain??? 😥 😳 😯

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wrong question, I’m afraid. 😕 Whatever is or isn’t wrong with his brain shouldn’t be that important to you anymore. The two of you broke up and he’s re-married. Focus on your own personal life and co-parenting your two children with he and his wife. Frankly, it really sounds like you dodged a bullet and this is a great opportunity to move on and be free of someone who wasn’t a good match for you. 😉 You can do better.

[b]Everyone likes to be liked! If the advice you found on AskApril.com was helpful “like” us on FB — and tell a friend!
[url][/url][/b]

[monroe87]

That’s true and I’m doing the best I can with my kids..This year has been crazy and it is hard when you still have to see this person for the rest of your life 😆
It did got me wondering if he did this to her imagine what he did to me behind my back 💡
He did act very strange when we were together and I had a gut feeling or maybe I’m just paranoid
lol well thank you for your reply very helpful

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I know it’s hard to co-parent with an ex, but trust me — you are much better off this way. Look forward when possible, and I’m sure you’ll find someone wonderful. This kind of rejection is actually a gift because it shuts of situations that aren’t right for you and opens the door to all kinds of more healthy and happy opportunities. 😀

[b]Everyone likes to be liked! If the advice you found on AskApril.com was helpful “like” us on FB — and tell a friend!
[url][/url][/b]

[Member]

Posts