[KK13]

I’m 22. I’ve been talking to this guy for almost a month. We talk pretty much everyday and have hung out several times. He’s Cooked me dinner we’ve gone out and stayed in to watch movies. We are flirty in public and when we see each other out at the bar. We have a lot of fun together and he’s a sweet guy. I am starting to want a relationship but how do I know without asking him if he does too. We both work a lot and I’m in nursing school but when we have time we hang out together. I recently (a couple of months ago) got out of a 4 year relationship and I’m new to dating again. He was in a relationship with his high school sweetheart for like 6 years (it ended over a year ago)and he proposed and she said no so idk if he’s extra guarded. What can I do to increase the chance of him wanting a relationship with me ??

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The way you’ll know if he wants to be in a relationship with you is simple: He’ll act like it. 😉 But…. if you’re too available, and you are too assertive, you’ll take away the opportunity for him to pursue you. So my advice is to be very flirtatious, but not so available. Hanging out and asking him to get together makes it hard to tell if he’s asking you out. Let him work to date you — if he starts inviting you to do things a) you’ll know he wants to spend time with you, b) he’ll have the pleasure of pursuing you (guys love the chase and capture), and c) the relationship will take on a new form — dating vs. hanging out with a friend who has a crush.

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