It’s not about trust in your boyfriend at this point it’s about respect, and she’s crossing lines that shouldn’t be crossed.
Your guy’s handling it right. He’s shutting her down, not feeding her drama, not flirting back, and being upfront with you about it. That’s a good sign. It means his loyalty’s with you, not her.
Now about her women like that thrive on reaction. She’s trying to get under your skin, and the more you show it bothers you, the more power she gets. She’s trying to stir something up, maybe make herself feel relevant again. Don’t give her that satisfaction. Let her talk into the wind while you stay calm and steady.
If it keeps happening, your boyfriend needs to take the next step, block her number, her socials, whatever it takes. That’s on him to do, not you. You shouldn’t have to fight ghosts from his past.
But you? You hold your head high. You already won she’s the ex, you’re the one he’s choosing now. Don’t let her drag you into the mud with her jealousy and insecurity. The best revenge on someone like that is peace and confidence. Trust me, I’ve seen how those old flames can try to sneak back in when they see someone’s moved on. The best move is not playing the game at all.
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