[broken4lyf]

is it ok for my boyfriend to have his female friend sleep over?

[misspj90]

I understand being uncomfortable about this situation. If they have ever been intimate in the past, I would say no it is not okay. But if she is truly his friend, and they have had sleep overs in the past and nothing has happened, you should trust him and let it happen.

[broken4lyf]

to misspj90 …
thanx for ur advice..but is it normal for a guy in his late 20’s to have a female friend spend the night at his house?

[broken4lyf]

[quote=”misspj90″]I understand being uncomfortable about this situation. If they have ever been intimate in the past, I would say no it is not okay. But if she is truly his friend, and they have had sleep overs in the past and nothing has happened, you should trust him and let it happen.[/quote]

thanx..i dnt if they have been intimate in the past but he has had a crush on her in the past before me and him got together.

[misspj90]

I would not say it is normal. But I know male and females who are truly platonic and see each other as sister and brother even though they are not related. Do you know if she has a boyfriend?

[broken4lyf]

i think so she mentioned a guy wen she was at my house

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s probably not okay for you! 😳

How old are you both? How long have you been dating each other? Is this the first time he’s doing this?

[broken4lyf]

[quote=”April Masini”]It’s probably not okay for you! 😳

How old are you both? How long have you been dating each other? Is this the first time he’s doing this?[/quote]
we are in our 20’s and that was the first time he had her stay the night by herself at his houseand we have been dating for 3 years

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Definitely not okay. After three years of dating, and you’re both in your 20s, his inviting a woman to sleep over his house is a sign that he’s less committed to you than I believe you think he should be. When a guy is committed, he’s going to act like you’re a couple, and his having another woman sleep over, is anything but that. 😕

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[broken4lyf]

[quote=”April Masini”]Definitely not okay. After three years of dating, and you’re both in your 20s, his inviting a woman to sleep over his house is a sign that he’s less committed to you than I believe you think he should be. When a guy is committed, he’s going to act like you’re a couple, and his having another woman sleep over, is anything but that. 😕

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well he says he offered for her to stay so she didnt have to pay for a hotel but he didnt tell me that he was having her over i had to ask where she was staying that night coz if i didnt ask he would have not told me and he never tells me stuff less i ask him

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It doesn’t sound like you have a very intimate relationship or that there is a lot of commitment on his part. 😳

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[broken4lyf]

[quote=”April Masini”]It doesn’t sound like you have a very intimate relationship or that there is a lot of commitment on his part. 😳

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well he recently lied bout hanging out with this same female friend and the day he hanged out wiv her was the same day i asked him to come over

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like it’s time for you to move on. 😉

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