[Anonymous]

Hi April, I am in desperate need of some advice. My boyfriend is breaking my heart he has been giving me the silent treatment for two days now and this isn’t the first time every time he gets mad he will do that to me.It all started when he broke up with me one time before and my guy friend was consoling me and he kissed me for some reason and my boyfriend saw we weren’t dating at the time and it didn’t mean anything to me but he got so mad and told me that he was going to screw with my emotions and make sure that next time it would hurt me more then it did him. Well the next time i kissed my guy friend on the cheek to congratulate him on something it was only friendly to me but I told my bf about it anyways just to be honest and he blew up but he forgave me and then a week later he randomly told me it was over and he said it was over what I had told him the week before and all and then he would not talk to me so i told him I was done and he said your giving up that easy I thought you liked me and then he told me he missed me and he said to me i told you i would mess with your emotions and that I would get you back for what you did.He also told me that he couldn’t forget things that he would hold things inside and they would always come back to him. Well anyways a week or so later i got a random text that said that i had cheated on him again which i hadn’t he told me he saw me holding hands with some other guy at the mall and now its been two days and i have sent a bunch of texts I have called him in tears he would just hang up on me and he will not talk to me at all I don’t know if he is ever going to talk to me again and it’s hurting me. So what should i do? should i let him have his space or what? I am so worried! i feel so depressed. also every time we are hanging out with a group of friends he will stay in the corner sulking until i go over to him and then he will isolate me from the group of friends and I don’t know what to do please help me!

[AskApril Masini]

If you want to continue to date him, given that he really likes to play games with your emotions, 😕 you need to respect his feelings. If he doesn’t like you kissing a guy friend, then don’t kiss your guy friend. It’s really that simple. If you slipped up and kissed your guy friend platonically on the cheek, telling him was surely going to make him angry, so it would have been better if you’d said nothing.

For now, let him be. You both have to decide [i]what kind[/i] of relationship you want. He wants one where you don’t hang out or kiss other guys. If you’re in, then wait to see if he’s still in, too. I think he’ll come back to you with time, as he has in the past.

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