[Anonymous]

Hi I really need some help on what to do….. some back story my x and I have three kids together and we have separated now for over 3 years. The problem with him is he wants to get back and over his dead body will that happen. Well I have a new boyfriend how is an on/off type and after a couple of months we are back together. What I need help on is a couple of days ago my boyfriend came over to stay with his son and my x drove to my place and saw my boyfriends car…. waited a few hours then rang my phone (at 11:56pm) yelling at me and threating to hurt me and him…. well after the call my boyfriend decided it was safer to leave with his son….. well the problem doesn’t end there somehow my x got his number (i didn’t give it to him) and called him, I don’t know what when on in the call as my boyfriend has not talked to me since.I have sent a text but nothing has come back????? what would you do???? I want to stay with my boyfriend as I really like him…… Please help me hope it make sense

[AskApril Masini]

First of all, if your ex is threatening you, you need to ask the police for help. Threatening bodily harm is a serious crime and one that belongs in the right hands — not yours, but the authorities’. You need to take care of this problem the best you can because no guy is going to want to come into a home where there is violence. So do what it takes to make sure your home is safe, has boundaries, and has order to it.

Second of all, if your current boyfriend won’t call you back, he’s not much of a boyfriend! 😮 All you can do is try and keep your own life orderly, and if someone wants to be with you in that life, then they will, but if your boyfriend isn’t calling you back or returning your texts, then it’s going to be impossible to have a relationship. 😳

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