This relationship is extremely one-sided and, frankly, unhealthy. Missy seems to be using the relationship for financial gain rather than a genuine emotional connection. The fact that she limits physical affection, keeps you from visiting her home, and only wants to see you when money is involved are strong red flags. Relationships, especially long-term ones, are built on mutual trust, respect, and shared commitment. None of that seems present here. Her talk of having a child is particularly alarming because it sounds less like a mutual life plan and more like a potential financial strategy for her.
At this point, the healthiest step is to set firm boundaries or better yet, end the relationship entirely. Continuing to give her money or maintain contact will likely only prolong your frustration and emotional strain. You deserve a partner who values you for who you are, not what you can provide financially. Stepping away might feel difficult after six years, but in the long run, it’s the only way to protect yourself emotionally, financially, and mentally. A sincere, loving partner will share in your life fully and willingly, not use it as a means to extract resources.
