[quote] My question is, why all this time would he say this and back off when he had the real opportunity to be with me?[/quote]
Either his feelings really did change as he got to know you and got to know himself (this happens!), or he was never that interested in a long-term relationship to begin with, and said what he said because he wanted to keep you in the game, or because he was just thinking about the moment, not the long term.
[quote]I feel like I could of had a great relationship with this person and can not stop thinking about him, should I try and talk to him or would that make me out to be a crazy person?[/quote]
He’s already made himself clear. It’s not a good idea to try and talk a guy into being with you, if he’s decided after a few months of dating that he’s no longer interested.
[quote]I believe that if he really wanted to be with me then he would not stop at anything to do so, but should I at least fight for him or try?[/quote]
You’re right — that if he really wanted to be with you he wouldn’t stop at anything…. but he doesn’t want you any more. Don’t fight for a man who told you it’s over. Respect his decision — and be very glad that he’s not stringing you along and wasting your time. Rejection is actually a gift because there are lots of men who won’t think you’re their cup of tea — and lots of men who you will reject simply because they’re not right for you in your opinion — and that sets you free to find someone who is. 🙂
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