[alizey]

I have a long story , i cut it short, My bf broke up with me two years ago. He broke all his promises of marrying me n so he left me. Then he also deleted me off his fb account as a result when he texted me and i didn’t reply him. Later on i was dying without him so i added him again n continued a sort of friendship with him. I always compromised n invested more than him n he used to chase after my female friend (who was also his friend but she left him as he left me, so he tried his best to regain his lost friendship with her)
On the other hand i cared for him , loved him but he took me as an option without realizing how much he hurts me. I was the one who used to text him more , chasing after him , Now i have stopped texting him n chasing him , so he now texts me after 10 days or after two weeks n just asks me how i am etc n sometimes like why i haven’t texted him at all , where i am .. Whenever i decide to leave him n once i said Good bye to him , he didn’t let me go , but then why he is keeping me, if he isn’t treating me good. I am confused , he says i am imoprtant for him but he doesn’t ask me now even .A week ago he texted me and said if i am ignoring him then i need to tell him clearly.I asked him why he wants me to talk to him, He just replied ok he has got his answer n he got angry. Now he has started ignoring me , i have texted him two times n asked him but he doesn’t talk to me well . What i do now ?? :'( it is hurting me .He is ignoring me badly on face book n he hasn’t texted me now for two weeks.
He keeps coming back after two or more weeks n just asks me how i am doing n that’s it , when i start moving on he comes n rip off my bandage , n now he is just acting i am nothing for him .. Need an advice Do i need to break all my contact , fb , mobile etc ?????????????? I don’t get whether he cares for me or not or just playing with my feelings .. Please respond me , i need help THANKS

[AskApril Masini]

You know what to do…… but you want me to say it. And I will. 😉

First of all, if a loved one, like a daughter or a sister came to you and told you this story about a guy just like this guy and her feelings about him, what would you advise her? The answer is super clear: You need to cut off all contact and move on. If a guy treats you badly, why on earth would you stick around?

This guy clearly isn’t that into you. He broke up with you and broke off your engagement — two years ago. He cut all contact with you. That was your cue to move on. But instead of moving on, you chased after him by adding him on Facebook. You decided to try and be friends with him. You can’t be friends with a guy, and you can’t be friends with an ex — it never works, and you’re living proof of that. Now you’re engaged in drama with him and you’re telling me you’re confused, but the simple truth is that you’re chasing after and investing your time and energy in Mr. Wrong.

The very best thing you can do for yourself is cut off all contact with him, be single, and move on. Buy Think & Date Like A Man, the book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] — and read it!

The only way you’re going to get out of your rut is to get out of your rut. In other words, YOU have to take responsibility for yourself and your behavior, and don’t contact a guy who’s done you wrong and isn’t good for you. There are so many great guys out there, but if you’re invested in one who’s less than great, you’ll never find the gems. 😉

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[alizey]

Yeaaa you are absolutely right , i should have moved on ages ago but i didn’t , i am the one who keep myself stuck in this rut n now i am stuck in a biggest rut of my life. He left me all alone but i was stupid who went after him , added him again etc etc , although he’s moved on , a guy who wasn’t affected at the time of breakup , then after two years how i imagined he is still suffering , funny 🙁 😥 . He used to make me fool with his lies that he cares for me n loves me blah blah. He asked me a month ago that do i still love him ? i didn’t answer him , he got angry n told me ok i am making his fun , i replied i am not n i appologized n so he said he doesn’t want to talk to me now . Next day i got afraid of losing him n so i told him YES I STILL LOVE HIM n i asked him the same question , he replied that he avoids such questions to respond but yes he .. (quite unclear) n i got happy , oh he loves me etc etc. I was unable to get whether just playing with my feelings or really cares for me , 🙁 😥
But i was blind in his love, he deceived me and i didn’t get this. So from now i am going to cut him off totally out of my life.I have just blocked him on everything, Now time to MOVE ON , leaving HIM in the past , It hurts me though but I HAVE TO DO THIS.
N THANKS ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT to you , for giving me a sincere advice n for responding me , THANKS once again 🙂

[AskApril Masini]

You’re very welcome. 😀

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[alizey]

ok i will surely follow your interviews 🙂
You are doing a great job 🙂

[AskApril Masini]

Thank you!

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