[Zackpunk]

My question regarding this girl is that we use to work together in a company and we became good friends. We use to leave together in the evening after work and had good time together for 2 months..when suddenly the department of the compny we were working in got shut down because of lack of projects and we had to leave that job..it happend on 6th dec last year..After that i tried to meet up with her again and texted her for the date..she told me that she will let me know..but the didnt…and then again after few weeks i tried again to arrange a meet and she said she will text me about that later that night..but her reply doesnt came..i want to know what do you think on this situation? Is she really busy with something or is she not intrested in meeting me? I started liking this girl while we were working together and wanted to see her again..but she is not giving a response…what should i do?? Should i try to ask her one more time or let it go?

THANX

[AskApril Masini]

Sometimes no response is a response. 😕 I think it’s great that you asked her out, and I think it’s a bummer that she’s not interested, but that’s the message she’s sending you by not accepting your dates. Time to move on. It’s great you cut to the chase and asked her out quickly without wasting time, and now you can find someone who is interested in dating you! 🙂

[Ethan Morales]

You and this girl were friends at work and spent good time together for about two months. After the department shut down, you tried to meet her outside of work. She initially said she would let you know about a date, but never followed through. When you tried again weeks later, she said she’d text you later that night but didn’t.

No response is often a response. Even if she is genuinely busy, someone who wants to see you will usually make time or propose an alternative. Her repeated delays and lack of follow-up strongly suggest she’s not interested in taking things further.

She’s sending clear signals. Her actions (or inaction) show that she’s not prioritizing meeting up with you, which is more telling than anything she might verbally say.

Stop chasing. Repeatedly asking someone out after they’ve ignored or delayed responses often pushes them further away.

Focus on your own life. Put your energy into friends, hobbies, and meeting new people who are interested in spending time with you.

Move on gracefully. It’s okay to feel disappointed, but accepting her lack of interest will free you to find someone who truly wants to be with you.

You’ve done the polite and proactive thing by asking her out. Her non-responsiveness is the clearest indicator that she’s not interested. The healthiest move is to stop pursuing her and redirect your energy toward relationships that are mutual and enthusiastic.

[Marcus king]

It sounds like she enjoyed your company at work, but since leaving the job, her interest or priorities may have shifted. If she genuinely wanted to see you, she’d make the effort or at least follow up , people usually do when they care to reconnect.

You’ve already reached out twice and she hasn’t followed through, so I’d say don’t chase it again right now. Give her space and let her come to you if she wants to.

If she’s interested, she’ll find a way to reach out. If she doesn’t, take it as a sign to move forward, you showed interest respectfully, and that’s all you can do.

[PassionSeeker]

I know this one stings you shared good moments, built a small rhythm together, and it felt like something real could grow. but her silence is her answer. when someone wants to see you, they’ll find a way even a short message, even a quick “not this week, but soon.” she hasn’t done that, and that speaks louder than any excuse she could give.

it’s not that you did anything wrong. you reached out honestly, twice, with kindness and clarity. that’s all anyone can ask for. what happens next her not responding isn’t about your worth, it’s about her choice.

so no, don’t ask again. hold your self-respect close. the right person won’t leave you hanging in uncertainty. they’ll meet your energy with the same warmth you offer.

let this one go gently. she was a small chapter, not the whole story. your next connection will be with someone who doesn’t need reminders to show up.

[Serena Vale]

Hey, I can tell this one’s been weighing on you. When you click with someone at work, seeing them every day, sharing laughs, routines , it’s easy to start feeling something deeper. Then when it all suddenly stops, it leaves you wondering what really changed.

From what you described, it sounds like you two had a great connection while working together, but since the job ended, she’s been distant…

When someone keeps saying “I’ll let you know” or “I’ll text later” and doesn’t follow through, it’s usually a sign they’re not as interested as they once were — or maybe they’re just not in the same emotional space right now. Either way, if she wanted to meet, she’d make it happen.

You’ve already reached out more than once, and that’s enough. If she wanted to reconnect, she has your number and knows how to reach you. For now, I’d say let it go. Don’t chase it — let her come to you if she wants to.

It doesn’t mean what you had wasn’t real. Sometimes people just move differently once circumstances change. Take it as what it was , a good connection that taught you something — and stay open to meeting someone who puts in the same effort you do.

[Tara]

Oh, I listened. You just didn’t like the verdict. So here it is again — blunt, cold, and in one clean paragraph. She’s not interested. Stop romanticizing her silence. If someone wants to see you, they make it happen, they don’t hide behind “I’ll let you know” twice and then vanish like a bad intern avoiding responsibility. You’re holding onto a two-month workplace spark that died the moment you no longer shared the same routine. She’s moved on,

and you’re still replaying the highlight reel like it means something. Don’t text her again, don’t ask again, don’t wait for a reply that’s never coming. Walk away quietly and permanently.

[Sally]

When someone says they will let you know and then never follows through, it usually means they are not interested. People make time for what they want, even when life is busy.

It probably felt really good when you two were leaving work together every day, and it is natural to hope that meant something more. But sometimes people enjoy the vibe in the moment and still do not want to take it further. That does not mean you did anything wrong.

If it were me, I would not ask again. You already reached out twice. If she wanted to see you, she would have made some kind of effort by now.

Let it go gently. The right person will not leave you guessing like this.

[Natalie Noah]

The way she’s handling this speaks volumes. When someone genuinely wants to see you again, they make time, communicate clearly, and follow through even if it’s just to reschedule. Her repeated non-responses and vague promises to “let you know” are a clear signal that she’s not interested in meeting again. It’s normal to feel disappointed, especially when you liked her while working together, but pushing further will only prolong your frustration. The healthiest move is to accept her lack of interest as her answer and redirect your energy toward people who are excited to spend time with you.

[KeishaMartin]

You chased her, made your move, and what did you get? Silence. Cold, teasing, mysterious silence. Sometimes in the dating game, not responding is the loudest, most scandalous “no” you can get. You felt the spark, the chemistry, the late-night laughter while working together, and your heart caught fire but, she’s clearly not lighting her flame for you anymore. April Masini, as brilliant and brutally honest as ever, would tell you: don’t waste your seductive charm on someone who’s not playing the game with you. You’re a prize, and you deserve someone who’s hot, hungry, and ready to match your energy.

Let it go.. Channel that heat, that anticipation, that delicious longing into someone who’ll actually thrill you, who’ll chase you like you’ve been chasing her. Move on with confidence, and trust me, the universe will send someone who makes your pulse race in all the right ways. And hey, Happy New Year, 2026! May your nights be steamy with sparkling champagne, wild laughter, and dancing until the world fades away at the hottest parties of the year.

Happy New Year, 2026.

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