I’m in a new relationship with someone I really like and admire. nobody is perfect, and I understand this because neither am I. However, one of my pet peeves is honesty. If I even feel a little dishonesty I loose trust which eventually leads to the end of a relationship. My new girlfriend, which we’ll call Jane, has been above and beyond reproach with honesty. so much so in fact, that I got some news that distraught my spirits some. She has had 3 boyfriends in her life, and only one of them, the first, was able to reach the sexual relationship status. This I knew and gave mere shrugs to, until tonight, she mentions how active they were, so much so that she started loosing weight. she then goes on to say she did it on a daily basis, at times multiple times a day. Sometimes they had to take a few weeks break from each other, no talking, seeing, anything, just to breathe air that wasn’t hot, stuffy and filled with evaporated sweat.
To better understand my discomfort and irritation, you must understand first that I myself am no monk. in my life I have had about five partners, however with each of them I get myself checked before and after the relationship and I always have condoms on stand-by. I have never had a relationship in which sex is as frequent as a heartbeat, I’m more of a heartburn in a 16 year old kid.
A more forward reasoning for my frustration at the news pertains to my perception of her. As the saying goes perception is reality, and she was this good girl, who offered to cook for me on the weekends just so I stop going out to bars and putting myself in risky situations. with this news my mind became Nicaragua, and BOOOM like that the reality just blew up, and although she is still that girl, the cancerous effect of the explosion does well to eliminate some of the better thots.
I really need some advice; any advice is appreciated and i’ll dissect and choose.
WAHT DO I DO? SHOULD I LEAVE AND JUST BE FRIENDS? SHOULD I CONTINUE AND TRY TO ERASE THE THOTS? ANY OTHER IDEAS?
