[Marinna]

Hey April, I have a tough situation an I need your help. I just got out of a relationship with my ex Colton. I now have a New Boyfriend. The problem is i cant get my ex outta my head i dont wanna go back to him for abother time. At one point i wanted to, but now i wanna be with my new boyfriend. I have been having trouble sleeping. With the new guy we are already saying I Love You. After i left Colton (He was busy with tournaments alot) I said Yes to the new guy an ive been cryin alot i just wanna be happy with the new guy cause hes the type of guy ive been wanting. I just feel crazy an i wanna leave my ex in the past he was my first love also. I just wanna move forward with the new guy. We have been dating a few days now an I don’t know if we should start the relationship over an actually get to know each other or jus stay together now. All I know is I wanna be with Tom an to be happy. Could you help me out?

[AskApril Masini]

You’ve only been dating a few days. It’s way too soon to be saying the L word — you don’t know each other yet! 😯 So stop doing that. And while you can’t “start over”, you can slow down and get to know him. You jumped into a relationship as soon as your last one ended, which may not have been a good idea. 😕 Sometimes people need time to get over a break up and process what happened so they don’t jump into a rebound relationship to avoid being lonely.

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[Marinna]

So basically just taking it slow in our relationship is best. Thanks April!

[AskApril Masini]

You’re very welcome! 😀

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[Marinna]

Hey April,

I had come to you before about relationship problems an i’m back again. This time it’s about Thomas, but i have feelings somethings not right. He was recently diagnosed with Jaw Cancer (Reminding you he is a cowboy an he chews tobacco) The past few days or so he is been acting weird on his ooVoo account he didn’t have a picture up all of a sudden he put one up. On his KiK account he had a picture of a rodeo. So the other day he sent me a message on KiK from a new account an on his new one he put a picture of him self up later that night he changed it again. We could go for almost a week an not talk he said he is busy on the family farm. I can understand a farm is a long hard job, but he still cant make time to at least say hello? I’ve had a few people say he could be/cheating. Since i live in Ohio an he lives in Missouri it’s hard for me to look through his cell phone. I was gonna make a new KiK account an add him an pretend to be another girl to see if he is cheating. It’s bothersome i can ask him what he’s doing an he always says “nothing”. He doesn’t call an if he does it’s only for me to help him with..ya know. He keeps rushing things through out the relationship too. What should i do? Do you think he is cheating?

[AskApril Masini]

It sounds like you’ve only been dating about six weeks. This is the time period when you figure out if this is someone you want to continue to date. It’s too soon for you to consider his seeing other women cheating, because you’re both still so new. You should always assume that you’re both playing the field for the first few months.

Also, if you live in different states, you’re having a long distance relationship. Have you ever dated in person? Or is this just an online and phone relationship?

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